Revelation of the Day

I was reminding my children on the way home from the ROC today about their attitude and tone of voice. I told them that it doesn't matter what someone else may say or do to them, they are in full control of how they respond. I reminded them (and myself as well) that they can choose to respond in a nasty tone or in a positive tone and that it is completely in their control - they can't blame anyone else for how they react.

I needed this reminder as I sometimes (actually quite often) let the behavior or actions of my children control how I respond. As I was giving them this mini lecture, I was reminded of the quote by Chuck Swindoll - it was perfect for the situation so I thought I would share it.

ATTITUDE
by: Charles Swindoll

The longer I live, the more I realize the impact of attitude on life.

Attitude, to me, is more important than facts. It is more important than the past, than education, than money, than circumstances, than failures, than successes, than what other people think or say or do. It is more important than appearance, giftedness or skill. It will make or break a company... a church... a home.

The remarkable thing is we have a choice every day regarding the attitude we will embrace for that day. We cannot change our past... we cannot change the fact that people will act in a certain way. We cannot change the inevitable. The only thing we can do is play on the one string we have, and that is our attitude... I am convinced that life is 10% what happens to me and 90% how I react to it.

And so it is with you... we are in charge of our attitudes.

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